Dear Steve and Shirley,

I have been married for almost 11 years we have been together for 24 years but have been having problems throughout the marriage. He has constantly cheated, hit me, and not to mention his drug use. I stayed because one I loved him and two the children. Finally, one day I decided to also cheat it caused a big fight between us and I ended up in a domestic violence shelter. After a year we got back together then our son passed and we both were heart broken I figured this should've brought us closer together but instead he packed his stuff and moved out of state with another woman. At first I felt lost I even tried to kill myself because here it was I just lost my child and now my husband. With the love and support of friends and family I got through it and now we both have been seeing other people and he has express to me that our relationships with the other people are not working out because we should still be together. He wants our marriage back but I don’t know if I should. Will he up and leave again?